Tag: Florida Divorce and Family Attorney

While many people realize that getting a divorce while sharing minor children can be complicated, divorcing while sharing children with special needs can be even more complex because parents often have to provide for these children and arrange for their care long after the children are no longer minors.

With the rate of divorce being around 85 percent amongst families of children with special needs, this is an important topic that deserves guidance and consideration, especially amongst family and divorce attorneys who are helping these families plan for the future.

Under every state law—including that of Florida’s—what is in the “best interests of the child” is what matters in terms of figuring out time sharing between parents and households. But what exactly does this mean in terms of a child with complex or severe disabilities, who may require lifetime services and support? What about a child with autism or sensory processing issues who may have a more difficult time with change and taking turns staying at one home, then another? In some circumstances, it is entirely possible that one home or parent may be better equipped to manage a child’s disability and special needs, and, frequently, additional financial support is needed in order to provide for special needs children.

According to data from the federal Office of Child Support Enforcement, more than $100 billion is currently pending in back payments owed to parents with custody of their children. In 2011 alone, unpaid child support totaled more than $14 billion.

Many people do not realize just how big of an issue failure to pay child support actually is, and this issue is only compounded when your child’s parent not only fails to pay child support, but also is also unemployed, untraceable, and/or has additional children from a separate marriage. In circumstances like these, working with an experienced family law attorney is the best way to ensure that you remain protected. Below, we discuss some steps you can take if you are owed child support:

Know Your Rights

You and your attorney should discuss your legal rights and responsibilities, as well as the pros and cons of going to court or entering into a settlement. One thing that you absolutely cannot do is prevent your ex from seeing your child in retaliation for failing to pay child support.

People tend to make a lot of assumptions when it comes to divorce, assumptions that can either leave you surprised and in a bind, or looking bad to a court, depending upon what activities you engaged in.

Below, we discuss some factors, issues, and behaviors that surprisingly do not impact divorce settlements.

Florida has what’s known as an “equitable distribution” policy; meaning that marital property is fairly divided between the divorcing parties. Therefore, even if you have been a stay-at-home parent or vice versa—you have been working more—this does not mean that the one earning the money ends up with a larger overall share.

Alimony is a sum of money, lump sum or over a period of time, which a husband or wife is required to pay to his or her former spouse after a divorce and ordered by the court. In fact, in deciding alimony, courts may consider the following:

Also keep in mind that not every inheritance that you receive during your marriage turns into fair game for your divorce negotiations; in fact, the law dictates that as long as this asset is kept separate and was not commingled with marital assets, it can be classified as a non-marital asset to which the non-owning spouse does not have access. If this is of concern, you will want to ensure that you work with an experienced divorce attorney to keep it separate from your shared accounts or assets, regardless of what stage you are at in thinking about or negotiating a divorce settlement.

It is easy to be bombarded by information here and there about how divorce leads to more complicated financial circumstances. However, if you do it right—and work with the right attorney—you can complete the process without placing a financial strain on your family. Below, we discuss some of the pointers to keep in mind as you approach the divorce process:

Interview Several Different Attorneys

 Make sure that you do your homework when it comes to selecting your divorce attorney. Don’t just take one person’s recommendation or work with the first person who comes up online; instead, interview several different attorneys and note who is paying attention, providing you with detailed information on how billing works, etc.

Trust your intuition when it comes to deciding who you are comfortable with. If you sign an engagement letter, make sure that you and your attorney are very clear on what the hourly rate will be. Also make sure to ask whether the attorney works with any junior attorneys and/or paralegals, as that can sometimes lower the overall costs.

As posting on social media becomes more and more popular, it also becomes relevant to divorce proceedings. Specifically, social media activities often either contribute to the cause of the divorce, or can be used against individuals in divorce proceedings.

A study recently published in the Journal of Cyberpsychology, Behavior and Social Networking found that people who use Facebook specifically more than once per hour are more likely to experience conflict with their romantic partners. Often, jealousy or instability stems from people being able to reconnect with old partners, or “emotionally cheat” with others.

In addition, social media posts can absolutely be used against you in divorce proceedings: According to a survey conducted by the American Association of Matrimonial Lawyers, two-thirds of divorce lawyers use Facebook as a primary source of evidence in divorce cases. Below, we discuss some of the most common types of evidence gathered from social media sites for divorce cases:

No divorce is the same as another—each one is unique based upon the relationship and the unique circumstances involved. Still, all divorces have at least one thing in common: the need to make intelligent financial decisions if you’re going through it. Below, we provide some guidance on how to ensure that you are “financially free” after divorce:

Think Of Debt & Credit Scores

While many people contemplating divorce are instinctively concerned about the division of assets, many do not realize that a court also divides financial responsibilities as well, such as debt. Most married couples share accounts, and it can be difficult to maintain your credit if your ex stops paying the bills on a shared account—even if you both agree to take responsibility for this or that credit card or bill. Remember if your name is on something, you are responsible for it—regardless of what the court documents indicate.

The payment of child support after divorce is very important to families for a variety of reasons, the most obvious being that the monies are used in furtherance of the child’s well being and to establish an appropriate quality of life for the child.

Unfortunately, Florida ranks fairly poor among U.S. states, as it relates to social and economic conditions for children, making child support payments that much more important in our state. For example, in 2016, Florida was ranked 39^th in the nation in the Best & Worst States for Underprivileged Children report.  

Child Support Guidelines in Florida

Florida, like other states, has a set formula (or guidelines) for determining child support. Under Florida state law, the judge may vary this plus or minus five percent from the guideline amount after considering all relevant factors, including the needs of the child, age, standard of living, and the financial status and ability of each parent. If the amount varies more than five percent, there must be a written finding explaining why staying within the five percent guideline would be unjust or inappropriate. This can also be the case whenever the child spends a substantial amount of time with either parent, whether temporary or permanent.