Archive: February 2018

The holidays are that time of the year when many Americans start thinking about divorce and a fresh start. January tends to see the highest number of couples seeking divorce.

In addition, the most common age for divorce is the mid-to-late 40s. It tends to coincide with the youngest child going off to college, when many couples realize that their relationship has changed, and they no longer have the child around to “keep the relationship breathing.” This also tends to be the time when a couple is planning for retirement, which can place additional stress on the relationship.

If you have been contemplating getting a divorce, because it is the holidays, having to think about and plan for divorce on your own can be beyond emotionally overwhelming. Below, we discuss some important guidelines in an attempt to reduce the stress that often accompanies divorce.

Broaching Divorce with Your Spouse

New research demonstrates that divorce is actually making American families bigger, with almost one-third of all U.S. households that contain adults under the age of 55 having at least one stepparent, and 33 percent of all couples over the age of 55 having a stepchild.

Ultimately, the rise in divorce and remarriage is driving these changes, with the divorce rate doubling for older Americans, leaving approximately 40 percent of them with children in stepfamilies, and almost 30 percent of adults over the age of 50 getting married more than once. Below, we discuss some advice proffered by those who have gone through some of these changes.

As Families Blend, There Can Be Confusion

As divorce increases and the size of American families along with it, plenty of confusion can also come into play, as couples and families plan vacations, chose how to spend their earnings on college tuition, and make other, important decisions involving both biological and step-relatives.